Of Relationships and Trust

Ok, Universe and you too Wizard...this is my Blog....my stories and tales...not yours...I didn't ask for your words here...but I guess it's really alright...interesting stuff you two wrote while I wasn't looking....maybe I should just let you two write my stories...
NOT!
I've spent some time thinking the last few days...about relationships...and trust...
Why would someone keep old emails from a past relationship? Why reread them sometimes...why look at an old loves blog...especially if you are in a new relationship...Wouldn't you want to make a complete break with the past and give yourself fully to the new...or is it that the old can't be forgotten...no matter how hard you try...its always there in the back of your mind...your heart...
and it being there...all that past...breaks the trust in the new relationship...they figure it out and feel betrayed...know they are second best and always will be...they may try for a time to make it go away...take over and control you....joint accounts...etc...they snoop and read...look and wonder...and in the end...it all falls apart...again...trust destroyed and what is left...you alone...again...if you are so set on keeping those old memories alive...on keeping the emails...reading them...reading the blog...then why don't you  realize what you really want and go after it...
Good points, Princess....people can be very stubborn when it comes to love and relationships...
They only end up hurting themselves and those around them, Universe....how sad...
Very sad, Princess....
I remember someone once telling me that after you ended a relationship, you needed to give yourself time to heal...told me that I needed time...hadn't had enough...but I've seen others jump in and out of relationships, not giving themselves time to "heal" and their relationships last only about a year...and a few weeks later off they go again...
Everyone is different, Princess....but to jump in and out of relationships that fast isn't good...they are hiding...from themselves...and from everyone else...they have no trust...no trust or belief...in themselves...or others...
Can someone help them someway? give them enough love...trust...belief...that they can heal...
Maybe...but once the trust is broken...it is very hard to repair...for most you might as well call it quits...if they are keeping old emails...reading them...reading an old loves blog...you don't really have their love, my dear...their heart belongs to someone else...
Thank you Universe in helping me put my thoughts together...I can go on with my stories now that I understand a little more of relationships and trust...
Your welcome,Princess...I know you have enough trust...faith...and Belief in others to make love something unforgettable....at least you do for your Lion...